What is a Narcissist?

What is a Narcissist?

Narcissism is becoming a popular topic, especially since we have a world leader who seems to display all the signs of it.   Research shows that since the 1980s Narcissism has increased in the Western population at the same rate as obesity.  So what is it? Narcissism...
Sons of Narcissistic Mothers

Sons of Narcissistic Mothers

  Narcissists have been in the news lately because every amateur and professional psychologist describes Donald J Trump, the new President of the USA, as one. But what is a Narcissist? According to the Mayo Clinic,   “Narcissistic personality disorder is a...
Management Without The Mask

Management Without The Mask

Management and leadership have various different models and styles we can adopt. We might struggle with the balance between concern for results and concern for team members. We can be coercive or cooperative in how we work with the people in our team. Wearing a...
Do Men Need Better Maps?

Do Men Need Better Maps?

Many of my clients are men who have lost their direction in some aspect of their lives. A crisis in career, breakdown of a relationship, or a more general sense of dissatisfaction with the direction of their lives, has prompted them to seek support to explore their...
Sink or Swim

Sink or Swim

According to Forbes magazine, 46% of all new hires leave their posts within 18 months. The vast majority of these appointment failures are because the candidates lack the soft skills to perform rather than the job-specific skills. If you thought that this was an...
There once was an Ugly Duckling…

There once was an Ugly Duckling…

That’s the first line of a cute little song by Danny Kaye (you won’t remember him!) and the story was all about an ugly duckling who turned out to be a cygnet. When he lost his dull brown feathers he became a beautiful white swan, but he had to be shown his reflection...

Why Don’t I Know What I Want?

They didn’t teach you at school how to work this out when I was a kid. Most people I know went for a quick answer, chose a life path, and got on with following it. We tended to base our choices on a range of influences. Maybe you have also run your life like...